Being a Supportive Parent of a Piano Student

As a parent or guardian of your child, you have a very strong influence on his or her musical interests. The world of music will make your child’s life fuller and happier and you can help make learning more enjoyable and faster by doing a few simple things:
 

• Become involved with your child’s piano lessons. Talk with the teacher for a minute or two after each lesson to hear what the teacher has covered and learn how you can assist your child during the week. The teacher may allow you to attend some or all of the lessons, and may instruct you how to supervise or coach practice sessions. Let the teacher know that you are willing to support his or her teaching.
  
• Encourage your child often. Praise effort as well as accomplishment. Let your child know you are interested in what he or she is learning. Provide opportunities for the student to perform in front of family and friends, but by all means, do not force a performance. If your child does not like to perform for others, respect that.
  
• Avoid negative criticism. We all respond better to thoughtful, loving help than to criticism. If your child seems uncooperative, it may be because he needs help in understanding or executing the lesson plans. Punishment, scolding or belittling is not a solution.
  
• Make sure your child practices regularly according to the guidelines of the teacher. Children, including teens, cannot be expected to be disciplined enough to practice the piano on their own. It is important that you oversee the practice times of your child. If your child is under 10 years or so, she will probably welcome your presence during practicing.  If the piano is in the living room or family room, try to limit access to the room while your child is practicing. If your child loses interest in piano lessons or practicing, don’t just stop lessons. Discuss it with the teacher. A different approach may be necessary.